Tender Care Adult Residence

1616 Todds Lane, Hampton, VA 23666

For more information about senior living options: (844) 490-3973

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    Overall Review of Tender Care Adult Residence

    Pros

    • pro Iman was amazing, professional and helpful.
    • pro The memory care staff were very helpful and nice.
    • pro Lakeisha Veney, RCA, helped get their sister ready for her 81st birthday and was very helpful and pleasant throughout.
    • pro Elma Livingston is described as the best nurse and a true hero, a huge asset to Commonwealth.
    • pro Olando Robinson has been a great addition to the men's unit, showing care and capability.
    • pro Devida and Keisha (CNAs) provide attentive care, with Devida gentle and thorough in bathing and cleansing and Keisha skilled with the Hoyer lift.
    • pro Wanda Rivera-Bulla does an excellent job with housekeeping, keeps rooms pleasant, and lifts spirits.
    • pro Iman Foster at the front desk is an angel, a great person and a huge asset to the company.
    • pro Lakeisha Veney is very attentive, patient, and caring toward residents.
    • pro Carlette Dickerson is described as the best boss ever.
    • pro Gayle Sheppard is very nice to residents and a great server in the dining room.
    • pro The facility is clean, friendly, and welcoming.
    • pro Bro Aaron demonstrates excellent interpersonal skills and bedside manner, providing excellent care.
    • pro The staff are easygoing and nice.

    Cons

    • pro The staff are not trained to handle memory care residents, leading to inadequate care.
    • pro Family calls are often not returned, and staff sometimes hang up on them.
    • pro Management turnover is high, making it unclear who is in charge.
    • pro Family items are stored in locked rooms and have reportedly been stolen or misused.
    • pro The assistant director/head nurse is rude and lacks bedside manner.
    • pro Staff allegedly fabricate medication-related accusations to discharge residents.
    • pro The kitchen and memory care fridge are unsanitary.
    • pro Billing is misleading with old pricing, hidden charges, and late fees.
    • pro There are bedbugs and no proper fumigation; residents were returned to the same room.

    Review

    The collection of experiences shared about this memory care facility presents a broad spectrum of both praise and alarm. On one end, families highlight genuine, heartfelt moments where particular staff members made meaningful differences in residents' lives, while on the other, they recount ongoing concerns about safety, hygiene, communication, and financial transparency. Taken together, the narratives paint a picture of a place where hopeful families can find dedicated individuals who truly care, but where systemic issues and management practices have caused real distress for others.

    Several reviewers singled out individual employees for extraordinary care and kindness. Lakeisha Veney, a resident care assistant (RCA), was celebrated for helping a family prepare their sister for an outing to celebrate her 81st birthday, described as very helpful, pleasant, and consistently supportive throughout the process. The gratitude extended to many others as well: Elma Livingston, described as "the best nurse I've ever known," credited with saving a mother's life on two separate occasions and called a true hero; Iman Foster at the front desk is cited as an "angel" whose presence and demeanor are a bright spot for the facility. Additional commendations include Devida and Keisha, both CNAs, praised for attentive and gentle care, with specific notes about Devida's assistance with clothing coordination and bathing, and Keisha's skill with the Hoyer lift and patient transport. Wanda Rivera, both in housekeeping and IT support in the family's view, is described as consistently helpful and uplifting; Carlette Dickerson is acknowledged as a great boss, and Olando Robinson is praised for his engagement with the men's unit. In several testimonials, these staff members appear as the living embodiment of compassionate care that families want to support and celebrate.

    Beyond individual kindness, some reviews note positive impressions of the environment at times - comments about cleanliness, friendliness, and a welcoming atmosphere in certain settings. Families recall moments of reassurance, such as careful, patient attention to residents in the dining room and other routine activities, and appreciation for staff who seem to understand and respect personal preferences and body care. A few reviewers also mention the facility's policy of keeping men and women separate, which some families view as a safety feature, and they single out younger staff members who have earned trust through consistent, respectful interactions with residents.

    Yet the positive experiences are countered by a heavy dose of serious criticisms that recur across multiple accounts. A number of reviewers allege that staff across the facility lack proper training for memory care, and that bedside manner and effective communication are inconsistent. Several families report being hung up on or promised callbacks that never arrive, and they describe a revolving door of management with frequent leadership changes, making it difficult to know who is actually in charge. There are disturbing allegations related to item security and possible theft, including a claim that family-purchased items stored in a locked room were removed or repurposed, with a specific instance of missing $70 worth of products. The same threads of concern extend to discharging residents - some reviewers warn that families are told their loved ones will be kept heavily medicated, while information about changes in care or medication is not transparently shared with families or the on-site psychiatrist.

    Financial and administrative concerns are an especially prominent theme. Several reviews describe a pattern of questionable billing practices, including charges that should not have appeared, new pricing that did not reflect agreed changes, and late fees that accumulate despite claims to the contrary. One reviewer recounts a painful saga of conflicting stories about billing with a director named Eric and later, a new director's assurances that were not fulfilled, culminating in a large late-fee dispute that led to collection notices despite assurances to resolve the matter. The frustration is compounded by reports that essential administrative tasks - like indicating care plans, progress logs, and timely appointment follow-ups - were inconsistently performed, leaving families feeling in the dark about their loved ones' day-to-day status.

    Safety and hygiene concerns also loom large in the anecdotes. Several accounts describe unsanitary living conditions, broken fixtures on move-in day, back doors that offered easy court-yard access, and furniture that was old or dirty. A recurring complaint centers on bathing frequency and personal hygiene: reviewers say residents are not bathed daily, some note that baths occur only a couple of times per week, and there are claims linking these routines to health issues like UTIs. There are also troubling references to bedbugs, with one explicit claim that infestations persisted and room assignment occurred without fumigation updates. Other comments warn of dehydration in residents and inadequate monitoring of progress, with several families expressing deep concern that staff do not keep accurate care logs or actively track changes in residents' health.

    Several reviews recount particularly painful personal experiences that underscore concerns about communication and respect at sensitive moments. One reviewer describes a grandmother's death and asserts that staff failed to inform the family promptly, with later confusion and inconsistent stories about the situation. In another thread, a family notes being told they could be discharged with unclear adherence to procedures or safety protocols, followed by inconsistent statements from staff about the care transition. A common thread in these stories is a sense that meaningful goodbye moments and timely, transparent communication were missing during critical times.

    Taken together, the testimonials suggest a facility with real strengths in front-line compassion - where some staff members go the extra mile to connect with residents and families - while simultaneously facing serious, sustained challenges in governance, safety, hygiene, caregiver training, and financial transparency. For families considering this memory care option, the message is clear: there are dedicated individuals who can make a meaningful difference in a resident's day-to-day experience, but there are also substantial concerns regarding consistency of care, staff behavior, cleanliness, and billing practices that demand careful scrutiny. Prospective residents' families are urged to conduct thorough, ongoing due diligence - visit frequently, review care logs, verify call-backs, examine bills in detail, and ask pointed questions about staffing levels, training, infection control, and the facility's response protocols - to ensure that the care environment aligns with their loved one's needs and their family's expectations.

    Features

    Housing

    • 7 resident community capacity 7 resident community capacity

    Types of Care

    • Assisted Living Assisted LivingAssisted living facilities provide crucial support and care for seniors who may need help with daily tasks such as medication management, bathing, and meal preparation. These communities offer a safe and comfortable environment where seniors can maintain their independence while receiving the assistance they need to thrive in their golden years.
    • Board and Care Home Board and Care HomeBoard and care homes provide a smaller, more intimate setting for seniors who require assistance with daily tasks but do not need the level of care offered by a nursing home. They offer personalized care, meals, and social activities in a homelike environment, ensuring that seniors receive individualized attention and support in their golden years.

    Amenities

    • Cable or satellite TV Cable or satellite TVCable or satellite TV is important for seniors because it provides entertainment, news, and companionship, helping to combat loneliness and boredom. It also offers a wide range of programming options tailored to different interests and preferences.
    • Dining room Dining roomDining rooms are important for seniors as they provide a space for socialization, connection, and nutritious meals. They offer opportunities for residents to bond over shared meals, foster a sense of community, and promote healthy eating habits. Dining rooms also ensure that seniors have access to well-balanced meals tailored to their dietary needs and preferences.
    • Fully furnished Fully furnishedFully furnished senior living communities are important for seniors because they provide convenience, comfort, and a hassle-free moving experience. Seniors can easily settle into their new living space without the stress of having to buy and move furniture. This allows them to focus on enjoying their new home and community.
    • Garden GardenGardens are important for seniors as they provide a peaceful and therapeutic environment for relaxation, physical activity, and socialization. Being in nature has been shown to reduce stress, improve mood, and promote overall well-being. Gardens also offer opportunities for seniors to engage in gardening activities, which can improve mobility, flexibility, and cognitive function. Additionally, gardens create a sense of community and connection with others who share a passion for plants and outdoor spaces.
    • Housekeeping services Housekeeping servicesHousekeeping services are important for seniors because they help maintain a clean and safe living environment, promote independence, and reduce the risk of accidents or illnesses. Additionally, having assistance with household chores can alleviate physical strain and allow seniors to focus on other aspects of their well-being.
    • Move-in coordination Move-in coordinationMove-in coordination is important for seniors because it helps ease the transition into their new living environment. It ensures that all logistics, such as packing, organizing movers, and setting up utilities are taken care of, allowing seniors to focus on settling in and adjusting to their new home. Having a smooth move-in process can alleviate stress and anxiety, making the transition smoother and more enjoyable for seniors.
    • Outdoor space Outdoor spaceOutdoor spaces are important for seniors as they provide opportunities for physical activity, social interaction, exposure to natural light and fresh air, and a sense of connection to nature. Having access to outdoor spaces can improve overall well-being and quality of life for older adults living in senior communities.
    • Telephone TelephoneTelephones are important for seniors as they provide a lifeline for communication with loved ones, emergency services, and healthcare providers. They offer a sense of security and independence, enabling seniors to stay connected and access assistance when needed.
    • Wi-Fi/high-speed internet available Wi-Fi/high-speed internet availableWi-Fi/high-speed internet is important for seniors to stay connected with loved ones, access online resources, and participate in virtual activities to combat feelings of loneliness and isolation. It also allows them to easily manage healthcare needs, access entertainment, and engage in lifelong learning opportunities.

    Transportation

    • Newport News Williamsburg International (8 miles away) Newport News Williamsburg International (8 miles away)
    • Norfolk International (15 miles away) Norfolk International (15 miles away)

    Care Services

    • 24-hour supervision 24-hour supervision24-hour supervision is important for seniors to ensure their safety, well-being, and access to immediate assistance in case of emergencies or health issues. This constant support provides peace of mind for both seniors and their loved ones, allowing them to age in place with dignity and security.
    • Activities of daily living assistance Activities of daily living assistanceActivities of daily living assistance are important for seniors because they provide essential support with tasks such as eating, bathing, dressing, and mobility. This assistance helps seniors maintain their independence, dignity, and overall quality of life as they age.
    • Assistance with bathing Assistance with bathingAssistance with bathing is crucial for seniors as it helps maintain personal hygiene, prevents infections, and ensures their overall well-being and comfort. It also provides a sense of dignity and independence for seniors who may struggle with this task on their own.
    • Assistance with dressing Assistance with dressingAssistance with dressing is important for seniors because it helps maintain their independence, promotes personal hygiene, prevents accidents and injuries, and improves overall quality of life. This service ensures that seniors can continue to dress comfortably and confidently, despite any physical limitations they may have.
    • Assistance with transfers Assistance with transfersAssistance with transfers is crucial for seniors as it helps prevent falls and injuries, maintains their independence, and ensures they can safely navigate their living environment. It also provides peace of mind for both seniors and their loved ones.
    • Coordination with health care providers Coordination with health care providersCoordination with health care providers is crucial for seniors to ensure proper medical care, medication management, and overall well-being. This collaboration helps prevent overlapping treatments, track progress more effectively, and provide comprehensive support tailored to individual needs.
    • Diabetes diet Diabetes dietA diabetes diet is crucial for seniors as it helps manage blood sugar levels, reduce risks of complications, and improve overall health and well-being. By following a balanced and nutritious diet tailored to their specific needs, seniors can better control their diabetes and enhance their quality of life.
    • Meal preparation and service Meal preparation and serviceMeal preparation and service are crucial for seniors as they may have limited mobility or energy to cook nutritious meals. Having access to healthy and convenient food options can ensure they are getting the proper nutrition needed to maintain their overall health and well-being.
    • Medication management Medication managementMedication management is crucial for seniors to ensure they are taking the right medications at the correct dosages and times. This helps prevent adverse drug interactions, reduces the risk of medication errors, and promotes overall health and well-being. Proactive management also allows for adjustments as needed based on changing health conditions or new prescriptions.
    • Special dietary restrictions Special dietary restrictionsSpecial dietary restrictions are important for seniors because age-related changes in metabolism and health conditions can make it difficult for their bodies to process certain foods. By following a diet tailored to their specific needs, seniors can maintain their overall health and well-being, manage chronic conditions, and reduce the risk of complications such as malnutrition or food interactions with medications.
    • Transportation arrangement (medical) Transportation arrangement (medical)Transportation arrangements for medical purposes are essential for seniors as they may have difficulty driving themselves to appointments or accessing public transportation. Having reliable and safe transportation options ensures that seniors can receive timely medical care and maintain their health and well-being.
    • Transportation to doctors appointments Transportation to doctors appointmentsTransportation to doctors' appointments is crucial for seniors as it ensures they have access to necessary medical care and support for their health needs. Without reliable transportation, seniors may struggle to attend important appointments, leading to potential delays in treatment and health complications. Providing transportation services helps seniors maintain their overall well-being and quality of life.

    Dining

    • Diabetes diet Diabetes dietA diabetes diet is crucial for seniors as it helps manage blood sugar levels, reduce risks of complications, and improve overall health and well-being. By following a balanced and nutritious diet tailored to their specific needs, seniors can better control their diabetes and enhance their quality of life.
    • Special dietary restrictions Special dietary restrictionsSpecial dietary restrictions are important for seniors because age-related changes in metabolism and health conditions can make it difficult for their bodies to process certain foods. By following a diet tailored to their specific needs, seniors can maintain their overall health and well-being, manage chronic conditions, and reduce the risk of complications such as malnutrition or food interactions with medications.

    Activities

    • Community-sponsored activities Community-sponsored activitiesCommunity-sponsored activities are important for seniors as they provide opportunities for social interaction, mental stimulation, and physical activity. These activities can help improve overall well-being, combat loneliness and isolation, and promote a sense of belonging and purpose among older adults.
    • Scheduled daily activities Scheduled daily activitiesScheduled daily activities are important for seniors because they provide structure, socialization, mental stimulation, and physical activity. Engaging in regular activities can improve overall well-being and quality of life for seniors living in a community setting.

    Description

    Tender Care Adult Residence in Hampton, VA is a cozy and welcoming board and care home for seniors who require assistance with their daily living activities. Situated in a peaceful neighborhood, our residence offers a range of amenities and services to ensure the comfort and well-being of our residents.

    Our dining room provides a pleasant setting for residents to enjoy delicious meals that cater to their special dietary restrictions. The fully furnished rooms create a comfortable living space, and our housekeeping services maintain cleanliness and tidiness throughout the residence. Residents can also relax and unwind in our beautiful outdoor garden or take advantage of the Wi-Fi/high-speed internet available throughout the facility.

    At Tender Care Adult Residence, we understand the importance of maintaining an active and engaging lifestyle. Our dedicated staff assists residents with activities of daily living such as bathing, dressing, transfers, and medication management. We also coordinate with healthcare providers to ensure that all medical needs are met. Transportation arrangements are available for medical appointments, allowing residents to easily access necessary healthcare.

    For recreational enjoyment, we provide scheduled daily activities that cater to various interests and preferences. In addition, our location offers convenient access to cafes, parks, pharmacies, restaurants, places of worship, theaters, and hospitals. This allows residents to remain connected to the community while enjoying the comfort and support provided by Tender Care Adult Residence.

    With its warm atmosphere and comprehensive care services, Tender Care Adult Residence is an ideal choice for seniors seeking a comfortable and nurturing assisted living community in Hampton, VA.

    Nearby Places of Interest

    Physicians

    • Patient First - Hampton (0.3 miles)
    • Family Practice of Hampton Roads (1.1 miles)
    • TPMG Hampton Family Practice (1.1 miles)
    • Wagner Macula & Retina Center (1.2 miles)
    • Hampton University Proton Therapy Institute (1.2 miles)
    • Plastic Surgery Center of Hampton Roads (1.4 miles)
    • Tidewater Orthpaedic Associates (1.4 miles)

    Restaurants

    • Chick-Fil-A (0.5 miles)
    • Sonic Drive-In (0.7 miles)
    • Tommy's Restaurant (0.8 miles)
    • Bar Louie - Hampton (1 miles)
    • McDonald's (1.1 miles)
    • Chicken Salad Chick (1.2 miles)
    • Chick-Fil-A (1.3 miles)

    Places of Worship

    • Sixth Mount Zion Baptist Temple (0.5 miles)
    • Warwick United Church of Christ (4.3 miles)

    Pharmacies

    • Health Mart Pharmacy (0.7 miles)
    • Kroger Pharmacy (1.5 miles)
    • Walgreens (2.4 miles)
    • CVS Pharmacy (3.3 miles)
    • Rite Aid (3.6 miles)
    • Langley AFB Satellite Pharmacy (3.7 miles)
    • Langley Hospital Pharmacy (3.8 miles)

    Hospitals

    • Sentara CarePlex Hospital (1.7 miles)
    • Langley AFB Hospital (3.8 miles)
    • Riverside Regional Medical Center (4.3 miles)
    • Riverside Regional Medical Center Employee Health (4.3 miles)

    Theaters

    • AMC Hampton Towne Centre 24 (1.7 miles)

    Transportation

    • Old Point Junction (3.6 miles)

    Cafes

    • Starbucks (3.7 miles)
    • Panera Bread (4.8 miles)
    • Starbucks (6 miles)
    • Starbucks (6.1 miles)
    • Starbucks (6.5 miles)

    Parks

    • Victory Park (4.5 miles)

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